for my 3 best guy friends
Okay... So, I'm getting all madrama on you.... I guess I just miss you...
I have really great luck when it comes to making friends. But every girl should be as lucky as I am when it comes to guy friends. Amongst my absolutely amazing guy friends, there are 3 who stand out. They're the ones who know what it is to truly love a friend as a friend... No residual romantic crap involved... They're also the guys I trust with my life... When I finally meet (and hook up with) the "perfect guy" they get first dibs at examining/scrutinizing/interrogating him... (Nyahaha)
So, this is for those 3 guy friends... the top 3 (in no particular order... all 3 of you are tied at number 1):
*For my best guy friend from college... You've hung out with all of my exes... And, to a certain extent, you've talked me through most of my guy-related situations... Hehe, we even made a pact to get married if we're still both single when we hit 60! (Haha, separate bedrooms and all)... You've supported me through the worst and celebrated with me during the best... You've let me throw tantrums, even if I end up saying or doing something hurtful... Now, we're going through a really stressful time in our lives... I'm glad I have you to share it with... One day, I'm sure you'll find the right girl for you... Someone who'll deserve you... Someone who'll care for you as much as you care for everyone in your life... You deserve the best... To misquote and butcher that line we both like from a movie we both love: in an alternate universe, we'd probably be a really hot couple, but in this one, we're really good friends.
*For my ka-loveteam... Hahaha!!! When people ask about us, I just tell them that we love each other, but we're not in love with each other... That's not the showbiz answer... It's totally true.... That's the perfect way to describe what we mean to each other... Actually, we're like the main characters of this popular sitcom (hehe, you know which one I'm talking about, right?), but just not as over the top... We're not as dramatic either... When I told you about the object of my affection (you know who) you told me not to tell him because you didn't want me to get hurt... I appreciate the fact that you gave me your honest opinion even though you knew that I really wanted to hear the opposite... I will, also, forever be grateful to you for being able to break one of the most heartbreaking bits of news that I could ever receive in my entire life, when nobody else had the courage to tell me (remember that? end of March, dear... You know what I'm talking about)... I'm glad that the person you love makes you happy... You deserve that...
*For my drinking buddy and confidant... There's nothing I can say that will ever be enough to tell you how much you mean to me... You're always ready with a hug and comforting words when you can see that I feel like crap... I don't even have to say anything... You know me that well... You've encouraged/supported me through tough times, and I'll always value the faith you seem to have in me... You've shared such a huge chunk of your life with me... I'm particularly flattered (and extremely touched) that you've let me meet most (if not all) of the people who mean a lot to you... Your girl's lucky to have you... I'm glad you found someone great (Obviously, I approve! Well, it's not that you need it, or anything, but I just wanted you to know)... I wish you guys the best...
I have really great luck when it comes to making friends. But every girl should be as lucky as I am when it comes to guy friends. Amongst my absolutely amazing guy friends, there are 3 who stand out. They're the ones who know what it is to truly love a friend as a friend... No residual romantic crap involved... They're also the guys I trust with my life... When I finally meet (and hook up with) the "perfect guy" they get first dibs at examining/scrutinizing/interrogating him... (Nyahaha)
So, this is for those 3 guy friends... the top 3 (in no particular order... all 3 of you are tied at number 1):
*For my best guy friend from college... You've hung out with all of my exes... And, to a certain extent, you've talked me through most of my guy-related situations... Hehe, we even made a pact to get married if we're still both single when we hit 60! (Haha, separate bedrooms and all)... You've supported me through the worst and celebrated with me during the best... You've let me throw tantrums, even if I end up saying or doing something hurtful... Now, we're going through a really stressful time in our lives... I'm glad I have you to share it with... One day, I'm sure you'll find the right girl for you... Someone who'll deserve you... Someone who'll care for you as much as you care for everyone in your life... You deserve the best... To misquote and butcher that line we both like from a movie we both love: in an alternate universe, we'd probably be a really hot couple, but in this one, we're really good friends.
*For my ka-loveteam... Hahaha!!! When people ask about us, I just tell them that we love each other, but we're not in love with each other... That's not the showbiz answer... It's totally true.... That's the perfect way to describe what we mean to each other... Actually, we're like the main characters of this popular sitcom (hehe, you know which one I'm talking about, right?), but just not as over the top... We're not as dramatic either... When I told you about the object of my affection (you know who) you told me not to tell him because you didn't want me to get hurt... I appreciate the fact that you gave me your honest opinion even though you knew that I really wanted to hear the opposite... I will, also, forever be grateful to you for being able to break one of the most heartbreaking bits of news that I could ever receive in my entire life, when nobody else had the courage to tell me (remember that? end of March, dear... You know what I'm talking about)... I'm glad that the person you love makes you happy... You deserve that...
*For my drinking buddy and confidant... There's nothing I can say that will ever be enough to tell you how much you mean to me... You're always ready with a hug and comforting words when you can see that I feel like crap... I don't even have to say anything... You know me that well... You've encouraged/supported me through tough times, and I'll always value the faith you seem to have in me... You've shared such a huge chunk of your life with me... I'm particularly flattered (and extremely touched) that you've let me meet most (if not all) of the people who mean a lot to you... Your girl's lucky to have you... I'm glad you found someone great (Obviously, I approve! Well, it's not that you need it, or anything, but I just wanted you to know)... I wish you guys the best...
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